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Why you need to re-think your deeply held beliefs
A few months back I read a new book by Adam Grant called Think Again (aff).
In this book, Adam's theory is that re-thinking our beliefs will actually make us right more often.
I found the book extremely interesting and it made me reexamine a few things for myself.
Here are a few techniques for rethinking your opinions.
Fix your mindset
Rethinking starts with being willing to rethink.
It's acknowledging internally that you want to be challenged.
It's going through life with an opens to new ideas.
Decouple your identity from your opinions
So many of our opinions are wrapped up in our sense of self. Two great examples are political parties and sports teams.
When these become part of our identity, we're unable to separate our opinion from our identity.
That means to admit we're wrong we have to damage our identity.
If someone's identity is wrapped up in their opinion, always be hesitant to accept it at face value.
Embrace doubt
When we embrace doubt, it opens us up to being wrong. If we're willing to be wrong, it becomes easier to accept new information and evaluate it fairly.
When you're comfortable with doubt, it takes you from an offensive or defensive posture to a posture of curiosity.
Seek out opinions you disagree with
This is something I really enjoy doing. First, it helps me understand their argument.
When I listen, I'm actually seeking to understand and not to disagree. This posture helps me view things from their perspective.
This means I view them as human and can empathize with them. This is soooo needed in our politics.
It also helps me incorporate any views I'd misinterpreted into my belief.
Persuasion is not done through convincing. So, another benefit of listening, is that it helps me see their motive. Once I understand their motive, I can speak to that. Not to convince, but to ask questions and flesh out the underlying issues.
Wrapping up
The idea behind rethinking isn't to get to you to change all your opinions.
But scientifically, it has been proven that your willingness to rethink actually makes you right more often.
Your opinion may stay the same, but the new information helps fill out your mental model on the issue.
There is actually a negative correlation between confidence and knowledge on an issue. As you get more information, you should become less sure of your belief. It isn't that you doubt your belief, but this mental flexibility allows you to see other avenues.
If you're interested in this topic, I released a podcast episode yesterday where I talk about this book in a personal finance context. You can listen to it below.
Our first inclination is to trust our gut and go with our first answer. But research shows that rethinking your answer, whether you change it or not, makes it more likely you'll ultimately be right.
In Adam Grant's book Think Again, Adam delves into this idea. In this episode, we explore how we can leverage doubt, operate as a scientist, and seek out challenge networks to improve our personal financial outcomes.
Thank you for reading again this week! Is there a book you'd be interested in hearing me talk about on the podcast?
If so, let me know! I'd love to incorporate it.